June 23, 2025

Jose Silva at La Hacienda in Vineland

In this engaging conversation, Jose Silva, an attorney and relationship life coach, shares his experiences at La Hacienda Bakery, discussing the rich coffee culture and its connection to his childhood.

He transitions into his journey from law to life coaching, emphasizing the importance of helping clients make better life decisions, particularly in the context of divorce.

The discussion highlights the intersection of legal practice and relationship coaching, focusing on preventive measures to maintain healthy relationships.

Jose's passion for helping families stay together shines through as he shares insights on communication and personal development.

 

takeaways

La Hacienda Bakery has been a staple for over 20 years.

Jose's childhood coffee memories connect him to his Puerto Rican roots.

The traditional method of making café con leche is a cherished practice.

Transitioning from law to life coaching was a natural progression for Jose.

Helping clients make better decisions is a key focus in coaching.

Lawyers often act as relationship coaches in high-stress situations.

Preventive relationship coaching can help avoid divorce.

Positive psychology is central to Jose's coaching philosophy.

Effective communication is crucial in both law and relationships.

Jose's upcoming podcast aims to keep families together.

 

Sound Bites"This takes me back to the 60s.""I wanted them to make right choices.""You're a risk mitigator.""I love doing it and I'm really good at it.""I try to do Bible-based coaching."Chapters

00:00 Exploring La Hacienda Bakery and Coffee Culture07:03 Transitioning from Law to Life Coaching13:56 The Intersection of Law and Relationship Coaching19:56 Keeping Families Together: Preventive Relationship Coaching